"I believe that richness is the reward you get when you bring a smile to someone's face.
I hope to die a milionaire:" ALLD 6-14-09
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Free and Alone
I made it!! You would think that I would be yelling Woo-Hoo! Sad to say that it's only a woo. There is no hoo. Now that I am back in the state where my daughters live with their biological father I am faced with the hugest challenge of my life.
How do you get back your children's trust?
They are angry.
They are sad.
They are resentful.
They are untrusting.
They have been brainwashed by their father and his family.
When I remarried I moved out of the state. Until that time they always lived with me. Prior to the remarriage their father did a temporary custody when I was out of the state, my mother signed the registered letter not knowing what it was and whammo!! The kids went to live with Dad because I wasn't there to contest. Because I didn't know about the court date. While living with him temporarily he turned them against me and my family.
How do I undo the damage that he has done?
How do you get back your children's trust?
They are angry.
They are sad.
They are resentful.
They are untrusting.
They have been brainwashed by their father and his family.
When I remarried I moved out of the state. Until that time they always lived with me. Prior to the remarriage their father did a temporary custody when I was out of the state, my mother signed the registered letter not knowing what it was and whammo!! The kids went to live with Dad because I wasn't there to contest. Because I didn't know about the court date. While living with him temporarily he turned them against me and my family.
How do I undo the damage that he has done?
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Perserverence
Times moves us forward and if you have faith and determination like I did you will perservere. There were times that I faltered and thought that I might not make it through the hardships. I have made some very close friends and my family never left my side. The most important thing that I've learned through my experiences thus far in life is to keep putting others first.
The bitterness that has been demonstrated towards me won't sour my heart one bit. That would mean that he had won.
I did! No matter what the cost.
The bitterness that has been demonstrated towards me won't sour my heart one bit. That would mean that he had won.
I did! No matter what the cost.
Sunday, January 4, 2009
ONE DAY,HOUR,MINUTE,SECOND......
Trying to keep things in perspective is difficult. He is threatening me with his bankruptcy,debt and that I didn't have when I met him. He is such a JERK!
He still thinks he can control me. He has threatened to have my car repossessed when I come home among many other things. I will not have a way to get my medications or to my doctors appointments. I'm not sure how bankruptcy works in a divorce but I don't won't to have any part of his continuing self destructive behavior.
He still thinks he can control me. He has threatened to have my car repossessed when I come home among many other things. I will not have a way to get my medications or to my doctors appointments. I'm not sure how bankruptcy works in a divorce but I don't won't to have any part of his continuing self destructive behavior.
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
HE JUST WON'T STOP
Even out of the house he thinks that he'll control me. I accidentally locked my keys in the car. The car door locked itself when I closed the hatch;-( He is the only one with a second set and he would not bring them to me. He yelled over the telephone saying basically saying that I did it intentionally to inconvenience him! I told him that was not the case and I didn't appreciate his tone.
He then asked me when I was was permanently leaving the state. I said as soon as he signs the divorce papers I can go. He said that he won't sign. He threatened me saying by the time this is over I am going to end up owing him money! I'm permanently disabled. I don't know where he thinks that moneys coming from or what I could possibly owe him money for.
He is/was the abusive husband that tried to bully a disabled wife into working all for his love of money. All of which contributed to the decline of her health.
He then asked me when I was was permanently leaving the state. I said as soon as he signs the divorce papers I can go. He said that he won't sign. He threatened me saying by the time this is over I am going to end up owing him money! I'm permanently disabled. I don't know where he thinks that moneys coming from or what I could possibly owe him money for.
He is/was the abusive husband that tried to bully a disabled wife into working all for his love of money. All of which contributed to the decline of her health.
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Highlands County FL Divorce or Abuse Assistance
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Disabled and getting a Divorce/PFA - Can't get an a Lawyer in FL
Divorce. I tryed in my marriage for two years and I quit. That sounds lame but if you have read my previous posts you know why. My problems are way worse than that. I'm disabled and can't get an attorney to help me. The reason is I don't have children to this husband and I make too much money on disability to qualify for pro bono service<:-<<
I have filed a pfa against him and told the judge against him.I have since filed for a divorce through a paralegal based with the little bit of money that I had saved. I tried going through legal aide of Fl and they won't help.
I have filed several injunctions against my husband but the judge or whoever wouldn't order him out with just what I have written. So I left the house for a short time (for fear of my safety) living with a friend but they wouldn't keep me long. (they're his friend too) I had to move back to the house. Fortunately he left but we will soon be back in the same place again due to certain circumstances.
He feels that it's his house. Fl is his home state and everyone there family, friends, etc. are on his side. I need help.
First and foremost what should I do about legal help and my safety?
I have filed a pfa against him and told the judge against him.I have since filed for a divorce through a paralegal based with the little bit of money that I had saved. I tried going through legal aide of Fl and they won't help.
I have filed several injunctions against my husband but the judge or whoever wouldn't order him out with just what I have written. So I left the house for a short time (for fear of my safety) living with a friend but they wouldn't keep me long. (they're his friend too) I had to move back to the house. Fortunately he left but we will soon be back in the same place again due to certain circumstances.
He feels that it's his house. Fl is his home state and everyone there family, friends, etc. are on his side. I need help.
First and foremost what should I do about legal help and my safety?
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
GUNS AND ROSES
He has threatened me with bodily harm more times than I can remember. He has threatened to kill me more than once. His verbal abuse continues to come at me the second that I see or talk to him.
He is my husband in name only.
I'm afraid to sleep in the same house with him. I didn't sleep last night. I just stared at the ceiling. Every time that he twitched in his sleep I jumped 10 feet.
This morning I went to my doctor and asked him for something to calm my nerves. He gave me a prescription. He also told me to do the right thing and be safe. Telling him what had happened the previous evening that had caused me such duress. Said husband threatening me with bodily harm in a public place.
He is doing this to me on purpose. Making me breakdown because he wants to look good in front of everyone. But he's starting to slip by saying the mean things and threats in public like he did last night at the restaurant.
It won't be long now. I'm sure.
He is my husband in name only.
I'm afraid to sleep in the same house with him. I didn't sleep last night. I just stared at the ceiling. Every time that he twitched in his sleep I jumped 10 feet.
This morning I went to my doctor and asked him for something to calm my nerves. He gave me a prescription. He also told me to do the right thing and be safe. Telling him what had happened the previous evening that had caused me such duress. Said husband threatening me with bodily harm in a public place.
He is doing this to me on purpose. Making me breakdown because he wants to look good in front of everyone. But he's starting to slip by saying the mean things and threats in public like he did last night at the restaurant.
It won't be long now. I'm sure.
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